.- A married couple recently appointed by Pope Benedict to be consultors for the Pontifical Council for the Family says they will bring their experience in a ministry dedicated to helping troubled spouses reconcile to the job.
Frank and Julie LaBoda, from Cross Plains, Wisconsin, are international coordinators for the Retrouvaille program that helps couples experiencing troubled times in their marriage.
CNA spoke about the appointment with Julie LaBoda, who said their nomination was âreally humbling.â At the same time, she said, the position will draw on their ministry, which she described as âwho we are; itâs what we do.â
For the past 11 years the two have been involved in Retrouvaille, which Julie described as a âpeer ministryâ for couples who have experienced pain and misery in marriage. Retrouvaille participants share the âgifts of hope and reconciliationâ and show how it is possible to have unity again.
The ministry is available in 24 countries around the world.
The LaBodas said they were happy to represent Retrouvaille and especially marriage in the United States.
Julie LaBoda said she did not know exactly what they would be doing for the Pontifical Council on the Family, but reported that she and her husband had met with its president, Cardinal Ennio Antonelli.
She described the Council as the arm of the Church that is invested in what the Church has to say and do about marriage and the family throughout the world.
The Council will be meeting by e-mail and will include the LaBodas if they have any questions for them.
LaBoda said her and her husbandâs work with Retrouvaille and their own experiences would be âinfinitely beneficialâ in their consultations with the Council.
âWe know firsthand from our own broken marriage and almost divorce that hope is possible and that the Church cares about marriage. God created marriage. Itâs fabulous that the Church is fighting for us,â she told CNA.
âIf we can be that voice for the committee, Amen.â
Through Retrouvaille, the LaBodas have met âhundreds and hundredsâ of couples who thought they had lost all hope but have now reconciled, Julie LaBoda said. She deemed this to be their âstrongest message.â
She said these couples are counting on the Catholic Church to extend that hope âbecause weâre not going to get it in the secular world.â
LaBoda said she was âa little disappointedâ to learn that she and her husband are the only married couple appointed to be consultors for the Pontifical Council on the Family, though she is pleased that they are asking a married couple for their opinion.
She reported that there is an Italian married couple who are members of the Pontifical Council itself, adding that she believed they too were a Retrouvaille couple.
âHaving been involved in Retrouvaille, itâs a lie for anyone to think that all priests donât know anything about marriage,â she added.
Priests know âintimatelyâ the struggles of married couples, LaBoda said, comparing such struggles to those found in priestsâ sacramental call to be married to the Church.
âThey have same joy and misery we have.â
âI do not take for granted the knowledge and wisdom that knowledge priests and religious have about sacrament of marriage,â she added.
More information on Retrouvaille can be found at http://Retrouvaille.org.