Finally, Burchell began to put the pieces together. He realized all of the things he had enjoyed about previous jobs - working with people, helping others, counseling - were key aspects of the priesthood. Then, out of the blue, he received an email from a friend he hadn't spoken to in years, inviting him to a discernment retreat for the U.S. Archdiocese for the Military Services.
Burchell decided to bite the bullet and attend. There, listening to seminarians talk about their discernment, he felt a peace he had never experienced before.
"After it ended, I went into the parking lot and started the car and just sat there for an hour and a half, thinking, 'This is what I need to do,'" he said.
Burchell was accepted into the seminary in 2006 at age 26. The past six years since then have been some of the best of his life, he said.
"While it's tough, I feel like in the past six years, I have learned to love God in a completely new way and it has really prepared me well."
Burchell is co-sponsored by the Arlington Diocese and the military archdiocese. When he is ordained to the priesthood, he will spend his first three years in Arlington before being released to the military archdiocese, where he will serve as an active duty Navy chaplain. Following his retirement from the Navy, he will return to Arlington to serve as a priest.
This plan suits Burchell perfectly, appeasing his love of service, physical challenges and adventure. And, unlike his previous jobs, he has never had any doubts.
"There's a huge piece of me that knows this is what I was made to do and it makes me very happy to know that I'm doing the Lord's will," he said. "Even though it's going to be a tough job, I know that I can do it with the grace of God."
Looking back, Burchell is grateful for the strong relationships he has with his family, all of whom have been great cheerleaders along the way. For his year in the transitional diaconate, he is most looking forward to serving the parishioners of his new parish. One of his first acts will be baptizing his nephew next month.
"I'm ready to work, ready to give my life for the Lord, ready to work for the salvation of souls, and I can do it especially this year as a transitional deacon," he said.
Now that he has found the fulfillment he has always yearned for, he takes great inspiration from St. Augustine, who said, "Our hearts are restless until they rest in Him."
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"My heart was restless for all those years and it was only when I said, 'OK, Your turn, I'm going to stop running,' that I was fulfilled," he said.
He urges other men discerning a vocation to take a similar path.
"Your life will not be as fulfilled until you're doing God's will," he said. "No matter what you choose, if you are only doing it for yourself, you're not going to be nearly as happy as you would be if you were doing the will of God."
Posted with permission from Catholic Herald, official newspaper for the Archdiocese of Arlington, Va.