“My brother Claudio taught me that our brains, our way of doing, of being, of thinking, and of tracing an alternative path, that is, to identify a ‘Plan B,’ is another way to encounter the other,” she said.
“The possibility of using multiple languages,” she added, “has allowed a flexibility as well as a resilience that only those who experience this pain as beauty can understand.”
“Every day we have learned to enjoy the joy of life, hope.”
The sister said that she and her brother might seem “absurd” in the eyes of others, yet they have learned “we must descend into the depths of these wounds (or openings) to experience the joy of the Resurrection.”
The Italian bishops’ conference has been working to include people with disabilities in the ordinary life of the Catholic Church since 1970, Donatello said. But more recently the conference also formed the National Service for the Pastoral Care of People with Disabilities, the office which she leads.
“We work in synergy (with parishes, with pastoral workers, the family and welfare structures) to combat religious, cognitive, and community prejudice so that more and more, in every aspect of life, people with disabilities are subjects and can express their belonging to the Christian community,” she said.
“The desire is to let people with disabilities know not only their diagnosis but who they really are and who the people around them are,” she added. “It is important that the Church also does not lose sight of them.”