The home environment itself is very important in these interactions as a Catholic family, Campos-Duffy describes in the eighth chapter of “Stay Home, Stay Happy.”
“In Catholic theology the home is actually called ‘the domestic church,’” she writes. “The lessons in love taught in the home have a greater impact on the world than the things that happen in places of commerce or government. Character, honesty...these virtues are first and best learned in the family home, where members learn to love, share, and care for one another.”
Campos-Duffy’s book is not altogether focused on Catholicism in the home, though a strong element of her faith weaves its way through, clearly reflecting her priorities as a parent. She is quick to point out, however, that the techniques and ideas she shares may not fit everyone’s needs.
“But the book contains common sense, practical ideas that we all need to be reminded of,” she said.
Take for instance chapter 10, in which Campos-Duffy writes that “Being an at-home parent does not make you a better parent. What it does afford you is more opportunities to become the best parent you can be.”
With that striving can come a simultaneous need for a reality check, as at-home parents have opportunities to fall short of their own expectations because they have more opportunities to interact with their children, she explains. “But that also means that there are more occasions to reconcile and plenty of time to learn about and from one another in the process,” she writes.
Ultimately, Campos-Duffy hopes that her book will motivate and remind at-home moms to recognize and indulge in the pleasurable and satisfying aspects of their work.
“There is a way to do it and be joyful,” she said.
Printed with permission from the Catholic Herald, newspaper for the Diocese of Superior, Wisconsin.