Dec 18, 2007
You know those weeks where it seems like you just have to keep moving or you might fall over and never get back up? Yeah, well that was this week for me. It was the week for final exams and on top of that two people dear to my heart went to meet the Lord. With the loss of people you love, it kind of puts things into perspective, and things like finals (while important) don’t really mean that much anymore. I did survive the exams but am still processing the struggles all humans have with death and loss. And that leads me to the message this week.
This is the final column for the “Born Alternative” series. We have been on a journey of discovering our identity and purpose in the Lord and redefining who we are in a culture that is in crisis. Most importantly we have come to see that Jesus and His Church are the alternative to our Team MTV society. With prayer, the sacraments, and Mary, we have opportunities to receive grace to make choices to live for the Lord. There is one final piece that is important to touch upon and that has to do with our perspective.
In college, a friend and mentor always used to say, “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it.” In other words, you can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you deal with it. It took me a while to fully understand what that meant but upon reflection it is so true.
Living for the Lord and making choices for him everyday is not easy. Be prepared for a tough battle. Be prepared to be made fun of and not have people or our society understand. Be prepared for tough decisions, ones that used to be easy when we were not fully choosing the Lord. Be prepared to stand up to the pressure of Team MTV and what they want to give to us in this world. In this battle a state of being prepared is vital to stay strong in the Lord.

