Jul 27, 2018
Back in October, when Harvey Weinstein's exploits [crimes] became public, those of us who have been supportive of the Catholic Church's teachings on human sexuality were quick to think of the prophetic nature of Pope Paul VI's Humanae Vitae when he foretold the dire effects that contraception would have on the way that men treat women.
As other prominent figures were exposed for their despicable manipulation of sex with women and men, we continued to be confirmed in our thinking.
However, the June revelations of the credible allegations of sex abuse on the part of Cardinal Theodore McCarrick confirm what many have suspected for a long time. The Church has been uncomfortably silent on matters of sexuality, family, and marriage because some in her leadership do not live these teachings themselves. And it is very hard to teach something that one does not know and live.
Obviously, celibate priests are not called to marriage or a life where contraception would even be a question. But their celibacy makes no sense unless one appreciates marriage. Marriage between a woman and a man points to the perfect union between Christ and his bride the Church. Setting aside the exceptions for married priests, the theology of the Latin Church understands that the priest, called to be in persona Christi (in the person of Christ), enters into a supernatural type of nuptial vocation. Put simply, if he's not continent- refraining from sexual activity- he's cheating, just like any married person who acts unchastely and engages in sexual activity outside that person's own marriage.