Fisher herself experienced that anger after her own abortion.
"I lived as an angry woman for so many years, that one of my daughters actually moved from Colorado...to New York to get as far away from me as possible, because I was just so angry at everything."
Fisher said the only thing that will win over those who are pro-abortion is to love them.
That doesn't mean Fisher does not participate in the pro-life movement. She's planning on attending her local March for Life, with a sign that says: "I regret my abortion. Ask me why."
She also participates in 40 Days for Life prayer vigils, she shares her story through talks, and she helps connect women in need of healing from abortion to bible studies or retreats that can help them.
But ultimately, she says, abortion will never change through political protest, because abortion is not fundamentally a political issue.
"Abortion is not a political issue. Abortion is a heart issue. And until we get to the heart, nothing's going to change," she said.
"Protest is how we create friction. Just the word protest... just the thought of a protest is angry people, angry people with knives and swords and forks out to fight. This is a fight against principalities. It is not against flesh and blood."
Shawn Carney is the president and CEO of 40 Days for Life, a popular form of pro-life activism that holds prayer vigils outside of local abortion clinics throughout the United States. The 40-day long campaigns of "prayer, fasting, and peaceful activism" have the goal of "repentance, to seek God's favor to turn hearts and minds from a culture of death to a culture of life, thus bringing an end to abortion," according to their mission statement.
It's not a protest, it's a prayer vigil, Carney told CNA.
"We take the approach of praying in front of the (clinics) because abortion is overwhelming. And it ends the life of a human being and it causes a woman to think she has no other option than to pay a physician to end the life of her child. And so in that great hopelessness, our Lord is the answer. And his joy is the answer, and his mercy is the answer," Carney said.
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The campaign has seen great success in turning the hearts of both abortion doctors and women considering abortions. Since its beginning in 2004, the organization knows of some 200 abortion facility workers who have had a change of heart and left their job, and over 15,000 women who have chosen life, during a 40 Days campaign.
It's also often an entry point for people who have never participated in any kind of pro-life activism, Carney said.
"We've had 800,000 people participate in 40 Days for Life around the world in 50 different countries, and 30 percent of them said this is the first thing they ever did in the pro-life movement," Carney said. "It has served as a great point of entry because it is peaceful and because it's effective."
But there is one word from Archbishop Martin's comments that Carney does take issue with: caution. "I don't agree with using the word caution with opposing abortion right now in Ireland," he said.
"I think they need to do just the opposite...and I think that the Irish have been too timid and a little too cautious with their approach to abortion. Now they have it. And that happened to us here in the United States. Shamefully, we're the example of this. We were cautious. We were timid. And now we have 61 million children that have been aborted."
Instead, he said, the Irish should not lost hope, and should cling to God and to their lively Irish heritage, and use that in their advantage to continue to fight legalized abortion.